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Wednesday, June 17, 2009

育儿大不同

一直觉得,
小孩车座,推车等等,
都是方便家长带小孩的用具。。。

训练着小王子,
坐车必须坐自己的车座;
吃饭时必须坐在自己的位子。。。

然而,
非常懊恼的是,
长辈们都不认同,
尤其是车座。。。
他们觉得让小孩儿坐车座,
是非常麻烦的事情。。。
带小王子出门,
妈咪的车换家里别辆车,
车座又必须重新安装。。。

长辈们认为,
抱着小孩在身上,
小孩会比较有安全感。。。
正与妈咪相反,
妈咪觉得坐在车座,
比较安全。。。

小王子也很厉害,
有长辈在车上的当儿,
总爱闹。。。
然后,
大家就会归咎于坐在车座上不舒服。。。

我的亲戚,
刚当起奶妈来。。。
说起贝比的妈咪,
买了一大堆麻烦的东西。。。
外出用餐最方便就是抱着小孩吃。。。
而我,
却不能想象抱着贝比我怎样可以吃一顿。。。

后来,
看见小王子用的奶瓶,
还问我,
这些奶瓶,
到底有什么特别?
反正有奶瓶喝奶就好了。。。

我才发觉,
原来年代不同,
育儿方式和观点也会有所不同。。。

妈咪应该坚持自己的观点,
还是听着经验之谈去改变呢?

10 comments:

Kai and Baobei said...

应该跟着自己的育儿方式。只要觉得能给小孩最好,最安全的,就不必理会其它了。毕竟妈咪不会伤害孩子。:)

泰迪妈咪@cherlyn said...

我的小孩是给家婆看,
所以她带小孩的方式,有时我不是很赞同
可是又能怎样呢~ 呵呵@。@无奈

Sarah's Daddy and Mommy said...

As long as you are comfortable with what you are doing now, then just ignore what others say.
I mean, you are not doing harmful things towards Sean. So let them be..(my 2cents)

Talk about car seat, now I have kept it in my store already, coz Sarah can't sit in there for long...

Anny said...

I have 2 car seats, 1 in daddy's car, 1 in mine which borrow from my sis. My style on raising a kid also diff with my MIL even hubby, 1 eye close, 1 eye open. *left ear in, right ear out sometime* blinkblink~~

little prince's mummy said...

Kai and Baobei,谢谢!有时一直重复听着不同的观点,会开始质疑自己。。。

泰迪妈咪@cherlyn,也许只有无奈吧!但是,往好的方面想,至少可以减轻你的负担。。。

Joanne, so fast car seat inside the store d a? Then everytime u go out have to carry her loh...

Anny, it's good to have 2 sets! I only have one.. That's why need to switch...

荦怡 said...

同意!应该依自己的方法,毕竟老一辈的那一套过时了。
你工作时小王子谁顾?

little prince's mummy said...

荦怡, 工作时,小王子就由我妈照顾。。。 虽然育儿方式有时会有所不同,但是,毕竟小王子有外婆照顾,真的比较放心。。。

Sarah's Daddy and Mommy said...

Yalor..fast hor.
Actually I just bought the car seat not long ago.
Now every time going kai kai, she will sit next to me. Then I have tighten the seat belt (really tight one) for her.

little prince's mummy said...

Joanne, lucikily my boy still want to sit on car seat.. Else, the car seat have to end up in store like yours, too... Everytime he go out with me, if he refuse to sit, I'll tell him no more outings for today, bring him back to the house... He have to guai guai sit in the car seat, if he really wants to go out kai kai...

Sarah's Daddy and Mommy said...

Yalor, maybe I am not strict enuf...
Or else the car seat wont be so sayang and keep it in the store now.

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